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Hello my coffee lovers, Lately I been fighting with myself about letting friends go. If anyone knows me, I am well like a rug and I been walked on more than enough times. I am getting to the point of trying to figure out why do I keep my toxic friends.   Ow when I say toxic friends its when you make a list of pros and cons and if you pay attention Some friendships might not have such a positive effect. Others might be downright toxic. You the bad out ways the good then it is time to let go. Some people can also use this for their mates. Its becoming a new year and we already have things going on we can not handle as is just to keep the problem that can easily get rid of. Yet I know it may seem hard I am still in mines. When it comes to Friendship, they should help make life more meaningful more excitement. When I mean when you see these friends do you smile, or do you go “Oh God” when they mention going to see you. I been and I am sure many of you guys been holding...

Hello coffee Lovers,  I know I have been gone for long times and I apologize for that life really got in the way and I am only human. Today I want to talk about something that maybe has a few heads turning to see how it will go with will be ahead of the red table. So, get together bring our tables together no matter what color it may be and let’s talk about Will smith’s reunion as he hosted Red table talk. Many people have issues who have family issues or friends’ issues bemuse thing went too far. Many of us try and stay angry and do not make amends because of what they been through. Some have logic reason s not to talk again but so many other issues can be mended can be fix especially when life is going by, and you have so many regrets. Will smith took time to mend that and talk about it to on the red table. The fact that had the chance to reunite at all is a big deal and very healing process. I been through allot of through family and friends as well. I have not been ...

Hello, coffee Lovers, I know its been awhile since i wrote anything at all but i had to come back to my coffee lovers to discuss this movie everyone has an issue with. I hope you have your espresso ready because i need you guys to soak in what we are about to talk about. This morning i was in the car listening to the radio and how disgusted these people were with this movie. They mentioned it was about young girls who were acting too provocatively for their age. Of cousre i had to see it for myself. So i took time to watch itt and analyze it as much as i can. Yes, it was hard to watch these girls act like that and dress like that but i saw the real story towards it. This young girl missed her dad because he was never around and when he comes back, he is with another woman he is to be married to. In certain cultures things like this happen  and the older wife has to basically deal with it as is. As for a young girl who still can't concept the fact this is happeneing acts...

Good afternoon coffee lovers, Hey, my coffee drinkers, I know its been so long since we had a conversation. Like everyone else, I have been dealing with the new norm of the year 2020. I know your coffee drinking been cold and frozen these days, this weather has us up and down. Let us grab this table(outside) and talk about starting over in life. Lately, I have been as much as I love New York but I think its time to move on to the next chapter. My first move was to get into another company, which I succeeded in surprising. I must admit I questioned myself like I did with all the new things I do. I needed to be more confident and I am getting there, it is only been a bit, so I am still doing what I need to do. I have been going through things that has tested the very ability of my mind and soul. It's hard starting over and there are things I am still getting used to. It is harder as well when you have children because you have to deal with switching over there life as ...

Hello coffee lovers, I know the world is slowing getting back to normal hopefully not to normal we need the world to be better. I want to talk to you about a show that is on Netflix and I watched it for a couple of years. These five fabs have changed my life without even knowing me.  These guys take the lives of people and they make their lives go upside down to right side up. By the way, I am not just talking about their homes I am talking about who they are in the inside who they see in the mirror. When I watch this show I am crying I am laughing, I even think about things I can change in my home and life. I always have lived to satisfy everyone and chose me last. The fab five showed me its fine to think about yourself it is fine to love yourself. I know we all have so much going on and we are taking care of others and we have been overwhelmed with everything in the world right now but take time for you. We are neglecting ourselves sometimes and not realizing i...

Hello coffee lovers, Everyone has been on high alert lately and I am not just talking about the double espresso. This year has been hard on many of us and we have lost so many lives over these few months. When I say losing lives I am not just talking about COVID, I am talking about the abuse of many that lead to losing lives. Believe it or not from police department members themselves. I believe and this is only my opinion is that fear is getting to us all. We are all reacting in ways that we should have been thinking twice about. Am I making an excuse for the police, nope? I think abuse of any kind form anybody is very awful altogether. Today I saw a video that was I can only assume a rally from my fellow African Americans in Minneapolis .  There was a rally there because they are tired of the abuse and the cruelty against them. They are loosing more and more lives just trying to breathe in the area of where they live.  This rally was based on a gentlema...

                                               To my readers What’s in your coffee? Written by vanessaAwriter I hear a hush beyond the many, I feel the light above my face I know I am getting ready, by the looks upon your embrace. They fix the microphone and I fix my shirt,  I see the audience and a couple as they flirt. I take a sip of water because I feel a bit dry, I am getting ready to walk on stage with a cup of chai, I am breathing all of it inside before I realize, Why do I have tea in my hand when I ask for coffee? They switched it faster then I can finish my walk on stage, I am no longer afraid to face the hush, because that means your drinking coffee we prived   And  it's so good that they rushe...

Hello coffee lovers, I hope many of you are having better days, and really took time to thank those who actually inspires you to be better like the conversation we last had. Today it was very interesting I love coffee had two cups but couldn't finish them. Can my body be asking for a coffee break? It better not be. Today I want to take a small turn into your subconscious. I have been really noticing people who have shown their true colors or more like a person you have never seen today. Today I saw someone actually push a gentleman who was just working because she felt he was too close. Yet it is not like he was just standing in one spot, he was more on the move picking up his packages and going back and forth.  Now why I mention this person was not to bring them out but more to give us a chance to realize since this year has started anger has become a big issue. Are the news bringing you to a point of wanting to become violent? People are not realizing how they are tr...

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Hello coffee lovers,  I know it has been a while but I did not forget you guys. I know everyone is having their own issues they are dealing with and barely have time to breathe, but for those who have time to read this is a good blog to do your reading in. At least I think so. So coffee lovers, is it only me, or did the consumption of coffee has risen since we are "quarantined"? I have been drinking up to 3 or four cups during working hours. It might be because I need the energy to keep me going in the type of job I have.  since we can not meet at the coffee table as always you are going to the area where you are at least 6 feet away from anyone even your kids..just a joke, they won't let you. Now that we are settled I want to change the way we look at these things. Lately, I have been so insane mentally that my mind is always racing even when I don't want it to. I have recently contacted someone famous and well known too many communities. I grea...

Good morning Coffe Lovers, How are you guys doing since the huge academic craziness happening? I can tell you something I have upgraded how much coffee I drink a day from two til like three depending on my day.  I even have gone from drinking coffee some days to drinking mimosas don't worry not at work. I guess I been going through it and mimosa does help sometimes. Don't worry I have a limit of two drinks. All the world is struggling in all sorts of ways and we are just trying to stay afloat and it's so hard. I want to do stuff to help but still a loss on how to bring that kind money together is not something I have to allot of getting mask and gloves for hospitals was my first idea but again harder then it seems when you only make enough for nills and family. I wanted to do sandwiches and stuff but it seems and their people have that handled as well. It's hard to want to do something and not know what o do to make this world better. I only have my wor...

Hello coffee lovers, I know lately, it has been insane and emotional. I will tell you I feel sorry for all those poor lives lost and scared for those who are still fighting to stay alive, my heart goes out to you completely. I am to discuss something else that many people are dealing with at the moment as well which is home-schooling. I bet by now you might have had at least two cups of coffee am I right?  Today was my first day of homeschooling with my child and I might add I tried to figure it out beforehand so I can be prepared. I thought I had it in the bag or at least enough to do my work with no problem. Boy was I wrong. First off I woke up at 8:34 am and I didn't wake up my child until 10 minutes after. We started on the computer at about 8:50 am. Just to find out we were supposed to log in at 8:20 am. I felt as it should have been at least at 9am being that it is brand new to us. Throughout the day it just got harder trying to figure out what work needs to be do...

Hello coffee lovers, I told myself I was not going to write about this but, it seems to be known as the new "norm".  I hope you stocked enough coffee or have a person to deliver to you as much coffee as possible. This virus called  COVID-19 is a scary thing. We are all changing the way we live, the way we work, the way we think. We never thought our world would be like this and we have seen everything from influenza to the Ebola virus and still have not seen anything this bad that it has traveled worldwide like this.     I bet you want to know how long this will take to pass and yet we have no idea and I hope it goes so fast like it didn't happen. New York cases alone are at a high 1,374 confirmed victims and rising. I feel like there are so many more but no one is really discussing it with us because they are afraid to be treated like they are the virus. Altogether there are 197,135 cases around the world.7,949 deaths and 81,683 recovered. These are...

Hello coffee lovers, Today I had to drink two coffees after watching Gabriel Fernandez's trials. For those who have no idea who Gabriel Fernandez is, I will tell you. He was a young 8-year-old boy who died by his mother's and boyfriend's hands. It was traumatizing I knew of the story but I didn't know how deep it went until I saw the trial on Netflix. He had a horrific story and I will give you some details on what it was about and let you know about my opinion as well about it. I suggest you grab a fresh cup while reading this or even watching it because you will need it. It was May of 2013 in Palmdale Northern CA, where a young boy died based on the abuse of his mother and his mother's boyfriend. Yet they did call the police, but only after the fact that time the abuse was hardcore he stopped breathing. I can only assume the abuse would have kept going and the neglect if it wasn't for that night. I wanted to talk about I'm because its fin...

Hello coffee lovers, I know the last conversation we had was for the mothers but this time around I want to talk to all parents, mom, and dads. Dad gets your red-eye drinks and moms it time for an americano. This time is a time to read, pay attention and hopefully learn a thing or two. We all go through a time when our kids get older and have questions that may be hard to answer. We worry because of their age and we want them to stay our babies. We must admit that we are all afraid of the day where we have to talk about sex or their sexuality to our children. Most of you probably had this talk and it didn't go as planned if it did, I am happy to hear it.  How about the ones who refuse to talk to their kids about it and they go elsewhere for advice? I didn't really grow up to have that conversation and I learned it in ways that are not conventional for someone my age to find out. I wished I had that conversation, even if it would have been uncomfortable. ...

Hello Coffee Lovers, How was your coffee today? I hope you ready for another cup. This conversation is going to be a very interesting one that may interest the moms more than the dads so I suggest you read so you learn a lesson today. Being a mom is one of the hardest jobs with the least kind of respect. I am talking about all moms, not just working moms or stay at home moms. We also got the first time mom who probably questions themselves over and over - "What was I thinking"?  Many people do not understand the concept of how much a woman gives up whether it is willing or not. Let us think about it our bodies change in ways we cannot even imagine and even trying to get it back its another fight.let's talk about how many have the possibility of losing their own lives during the time of giving birth. That is self can make a woman's mind question whether they are even beautiful, knowing it the most beautiful thing a woman can do for any baby's life. Am I...

Hello Coffee Lovers, Well, its time from the serious issues again I hope you have a fresh cup of coffee because it's going to be deep. I normally do not do the conversation that is going on at the moment but the recent news has everyone chatting. A gentleman supposedly the age of  9 (which I will not mention his name) had a video going viral on what bullying has done to him emotionally and how he mentioned wanting to end his life many times. Though these few days made many people questioning whether this video was legit or not still begs the question. How is bullying only been mentioned now when bullying has been a long life struggle for many? I also wonder why people think throwing money at a child is a way to take away what they feel and erasing their past memories of what it felt like to be bullied to the point where they saw death as their only way out. Bullying has always been a problem in this world. I have read before that 1 of 3 children is bullied.  Do ...

Hello Coffee Lovers,  Hello guys i know its been a minute since we chatted. I been dealing with grown up  life and we all know how hard that is. I hope everyone been enjoying there coffees while i been gone.  I have to need to try new coffees but i must admit wasting money on a drink i don't like is not easy, but i say try new things, just be cautious. So today we are discussing people who rely on others way more then they should,In dependence. I have seen it so many times in my life and had to experience what its like as well. I know you must be think ''why can't rely on others?" but i am not saying  that not to rely on people i am saying sometimes you must realize you loos your independence  little by little when you are over  relying on others. I have seen when people say they want to be independence but can't but in my head is saying can't or won't? I know its easier when you have help but don't you feel ashamed a bit how you ...

Hello Coffee Lovers, Today we will be going deep into your soul and minds, about a common but untold story of an abusive relationship.Are you seeing the signs to know you are or someone you may know in one? So I suggest you get your coffee large or in the words or "Starbucks" Venti and bring your seats closer. Your gonna wanna stay awake for this. Have you ever asked yourself "Am i being treated fairly?'  "Are these how relationships are?" Sometimes we don't even ask questions and we should. The rates of abuse in relationships have gone up over the year pretty high too and maybe its always been there but now we are noticing it more because of news an etc. Let me get  this straight because when people hear bad relationships they think boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife.I am thinking more beyond that or with that in mind but also abuse between siblings,friends,even your own parents. Those are more untold then anythin...