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When is a good time to have "The Talk"

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Hello coffee lovers, I know the last conversation we had was for the mothers but this time around I want to talk to all parents, mom, and dads. Dad gets your red-eye drinks and moms it time for an americano. This time is a time to read, pay attention and hopefully learn a thing or two. We all go through a time when our kids get older and have questions that may be hard to answer. We worry because of their age and we want them to stay our babies. We must admit that we are all afraid of the day where we have to talk about sex or their sexuality to our children. Most of you probably had this talk and it didn't go as planned if it did, I am happy to hear it.  How about the ones who refuse to talk to their kids about it and they go elsewhere for advice? I didn't really grow up to have that conversation and I learned it in ways that are not conventional for someone my age to find out. I wished I had that conversation, even if it would have been uncomfortable. ...

A healthy mind, ensures A better mom

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Hello Coffee Lovers, How was your coffee today? I hope you ready for another cup. This conversation is going to be a very interesting one that may interest the moms more than the dads so I suggest you read so you learn a lesson today. Being a mom is one of the hardest jobs with the least kind of respect. I am talking about all moms, not just working moms or stay at home moms. We also got the first time mom who probably questions themselves over and over - "What was I thinking"?  Many people do not understand the concept of how much a woman gives up whether it is willing or not. Let us think about it our bodies change in ways we cannot even imagine and even trying to get it back its another fight.let's talk about how many have the possibility of losing their own lives during the time of giving birth. That is self can make a woman's mind question whether they are even beautiful, knowing it the most beautiful thing a woman can do for any baby's life. Am I...

Bullying, why are you still there?

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Hello Coffee Lovers, Well, its time from the serious issues again I hope you have a fresh cup of coffee because it's going to be deep. I normally do not do the conversation that is going on at the moment but the recent news has everyone chatting. A gentleman supposedly the age of  9 (which I will not mention his name) had a video going viral on what bullying has done to him emotionally and how he mentioned wanting to end his life many times. Though these few days made many people questioning whether this video was legit or not still begs the question. How is bullying only been mentioned now when bullying has been a long life struggle for many? I also wonder why people think throwing money at a child is a way to take away what they feel and erasing their past memories of what it felt like to be bullied to the point where they saw death as their only way out. Bullying has always been a problem in this world. I have read before that 1 of 3 children is bullied.  Do ...

In dependence

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Hello Coffee Lovers,  Hello guys i know its been a minute since we chatted. I been dealing with grown up  life and we all know how hard that is. I hope everyone been enjoying there coffees while i been gone.  I have to need to try new coffees but i must admit wasting money on a drink i don't like is not easy, but i say try new things, just be cautious. So today we are discussing people who rely on others way more then they should,In dependence. I have seen it so many times in my life and had to experience what its like as well. I know you must be think ''why can't rely on others?" but i am not saying  that not to rely on people i am saying sometimes you must realize you loos your independence  little by little when you are over  relying on others. I have seen when people say they want to be independence but can't but in my head is saying can't or won't? I know its easier when you have help but don't you feel ashamed a bit how you ...