Toxic friends (when to let go)

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Hello my coffee lovers,

Lately I been fighting with myself about letting friends go. If anyone knows me, I am well like a rug and I been walked on more than enough times. I am getting to the point of trying to figure out why do I keep my toxic friends. 

 Ow when I say toxic friends its when you make a list of pros and cons and if you pay attention Some friendships might not have such a positive effect. Others might be downright toxic.

You the bad out ways the good then it is time to let go. Some people can also use this for their mates.

Its becoming a new year and we already have things going on we can not handle as is just to keep the problem that can easily get rid of. Yet I know it may seem hard I am still in mines.

When it comes to Friendship, they should help make life more meaningful more excitement. When I mean when you see these friends do you smile, or do you go “Oh God” when they mention going to see you.

I been and I am sure many of you guys been holding on to someone just because and you keep questioning yourself “why do I have them around” Now let me get this straight in the beginning it was probably good friend in the beginning. Everyone was happy to see each other no drama. Then something happens and things start to get dark somehow. As time went by you are still friend but there is not the same connection just drinking around each other to numb whatever is really going on.

This is the time you must let go of your toxic friend because it will go down a deeper dark hole that will lead you to hate. That is something you want to avoid. Letting go before it get s that bad will have a chance in future to have space and maybe start again but if it goes that deep then your friendship may be lost forever.

I am not expert, but I will guarantee that this is where you do not want to let go of your actual good memories.

Now for those who have no idea if they are in a toxic friendship here are some clues.

  1. You do not enjoy spending time with them even if for an hour or so.

  2. You lost trust in them (With secrets or anything)

  3. You do not like who you become when your around them.

  4. You are embarrassed by their behavior toward others. Or yourself when they around others.

  5. You make excuses for their behavior.

  6. You do not really know why your friends with them


Take time to realize when you do have a real friendship or toxic one. It’s your choice to let go but realizing you are in one is the first step. Until next time see you Latte!☕☕☕

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