How long do you Mourn?

Hello coffee lovers,

First of all let me scream and hug thank you t o my coffee lover and readers. It surprises ame all the time.I surpassed 2,000 views because you guys took an interest in what I had to say and that means a lot. “Thank you all!”

Now let's get an espresso or black eye because this conversation will get really deep.yet i talk about things that inspire people i always have to talk about the things that people refuse to talk about. So pull up a chair not too close a few feet away but sit as this long table of the words of “Mourn”.

What does the word mean? To show the conventional or usual signs of sorrow over a person's death. Many people think they know what a good time to get over the part of “Mourn”.

When a person is mourning they go through so many phases.

Deep mourning or full mourning, second mourning, and half-mourning.

These are steps that are hard to bear.Losing someone whether you knew them all your life or you just met them,even if you were just trying to save them because it was your job.

There is no real way to get over mourning despite what everyone says. My mom passed when I was ten and I remember her in bits of memories and yet I feel an empty feeling inside my heart. I mean I am 41 and I still have not gotten over it.

I recently lost my grandmother who if you would know her voice was made for the angels.

Some people take a year to mourn, some tell you how to mourn . I just don’t think everyone is the same. The moments were different. The feelings are in so many directions,we are lucky to even get out of bed in the morning.

I will not ever tell someone to mourn but I really worry when you go too deep in the mourning to the point you want to join them. I can’t condone that  but know that feeling does not end with you that feeling that you think you can’t heal from. I just want to say that it will hurt and you will cry but everyday it will hurt a little less everyday.  Just stay strong ,look to friends,talk to a daily member of even look up online for help like this great site like: https://griefline.org.au/counselling-services/phone-counselling/

That can help you heal without feeling alone and they know what they're talking about.

It's like a scar in the beginning you see it and it hurts but it hurts and over time you see less of the scar and you're left with a chapter in your life that you would never forget. So I hope you heal and I am sending you my virtual hugs.

Until the next meet up,you can mourn over the fact we finished our coffee and smile at the fact I am your foam..I hope.

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