I can not do it all

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Hello Coffee Lovers, Today i want to tell you something personal for those who think they have it all. So, get some comforting coffee you may need one while we discuss how i cannot do it all. Lately i been having a hard time with my own feelings or my own thoughts. I been struggling because i want it all and well yet am close to have it all it is still hard.
I have been overwhelmed with so much going on. I can’t not think i cannot do thing sike i should. the normal things like wanting to get up happy is a bit harder for me these days. I mentioned this because i know there are parents trying to have it all and say they get it all no one talks about the steps they took to get there. The sweat while trying the tears cried at night from being exhausted mentally and physically. No one talks about how much they lose to have more. Being a parent is hard as well dealing with your children especially around this time and day and covid has not really made anyone’s life better am i right? the funny thing is ai feel guilty for having a better now than i did before like if i did not deserve it. Do you ever feel like you do not deserve even when you have it or worked for it? I can tell you if you worked as hard as I have. The feelings that you have gotten is natural and I know you get scared to have it all then loose it I do. But know that you deserve it all. Life is what we have, and we are lucky compared to so much we lost so many lives we lost and to the people we could not say goodbye to because of the last year. Just want you to know you are not alone and you can reach out to me and talk I get it and I understand I can tell you i am not perfect, but I am not giving up getting my dream to get my right to live my life no matter what leaps i must jump and you shall do the same. I may have my days when I need to cry or need a day to just be, but I get up the next day and fight for another day of happiness another day for my family another day for me. So, yea I cannot have it all but trust me I am going to try. Until our next Conversation see you latte and put a bit foam in it! #icannothaveitall #life #coffeelovers #try #coffee #parents

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  1. Miss IntrovertApril 1, 2021 at 7:52 PM

    You are right, we cannot have it all but we can stop and appreciate what we do have. Always remember one thing, the grass is not always greener on the other side. And this holds true to so much. Not all the people smiling are happy. Not all the people with money are complete. Not ever big house feels like a home. Just stop, look at all that you have accomplished and Pat yourself on the back. I’m proud of you!

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