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Parenting, everyone's parenting skills are different.

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Hello COFFEE LOVERS, TODAY ON THIS CONVERSATION I WOULD NEED A DOUBLE SHOT OF ESPRESSO NOT ONLY BECAUSE I AM TIRED BUT PARENTING AND HOW IT IS A VERY DIFFICULT CONVERSATION TO HAVE. NOT MANY PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR ABOUT THEIR PARENTING SKILLS. I MUST ADMIT I AM ONE OF THEM. I HAVE A HARD TIME LISTENING TO PEOPLE SAYING WHAT I SHOULD OR NOT SHOULD DO WITH MY CHILD.YET I KNOW MOST OF THE TIME I KNOW IT JUST TO MAKE MY LIFE EASIER. 4 PARENTING STYLES 1) PERMISSIVE: CHILD-DRIVEN RARELY GIVES OR ENFORCES OVERINDULGED CHILD TO AVOID CONFLICT 2) AUTHORITATIVE SOLVES PROBLEMS TOGETHER WITH CHILD SETS CLEAR RULES AND EXPECTATIONS OPENS COMMUNICATION AND SHOWS CONSEQUENCES 3) NEGLECTFUL UNINVOLVED OR ABSENT PROVIDES LITTLE NURTURANCE OR GUIDANCE INDIFFERENT TO A CHILD'S SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL AND BEHAVIOR NEEDS 4) AUTHORITARIAN PARENT-DRIVEN SETS STRICT RULES AND PUNISHMENT ONE-WAY COMMUNICATION,WITH STYLE CONSIDERATION OR CHILD'S SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL AND BEHAVIORAL NEEDS WHILE DOIN...

Can a broken relationship be fixed again?

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Hello coffee lovers, Ist getting hotter and you think relationships will be getting better,because of the trip and great weather. But this is the time we get most break ups. I know this sounds crazy but during the summer time is what they now call “ thot summer” Hot Girl Summer basically. Where it's time to get out of whatever relationship they had during the cold season to enjoy and party time for summer. Is this the only reason people break up ,nope. Some people have issues they cannot seem to fix or in other words they are unsure of the problem they have at all. Some people want to fix their relationship no matter how bad it gets because they have love for eachother but the question is can a broken relationship be fixed again? If it's a trust issue it may never be healed but it can be bearable depending on how many times the trust has been broken. If it's been broken since the get go it's harder to get over.The harder it is in the beginning the harder you...

Coping with your children going to college

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Good morning coffee lovers, I know you have a lot going on preparing your children for the prom and so on but today i want you to think about what the children are feeling or coping with the fact that they are going off to college for the first time ever.It time to bring out something like Salted Caramel Signature Latte because yet some of this conversation is going to be salty it will have some sweetness in the end. Dealing with your teenager going away is a big deal especially when being the actual teeneger. There are so many moves to make when thinking about college. LIke for example does your child know what field they want to go into. Does the grades thehave will be able to make a difference to get into the college or field they need to get into. All of these things can make a teenager and a parent nervous. Yet they are in the beginning of their young adult life they are still children and get scared as so. Some children work harder because they really want to make...