Parenting, everyone's parenting skills are different.

Hello COFFEE LOVERS, TODAY ON THIS CONVERSATION I WOULD NEED A DOUBLE SHOT OF ESPRESSO NOT ONLY BECAUSE I AM TIRED BUT PARENTING AND HOW IT IS A VERY DIFFICULT CONVERSATION TO HAVE. NOT MANY PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR ABOUT THEIR PARENTING SKILLS. I MUST ADMIT I AM ONE OF THEM. I HAVE A HARD TIME LISTENING TO PEOPLE SAYING WHAT I SHOULD OR NOT SHOULD DO WITH MY CHILD.YET I KNOW MOST OF THE TIME I KNOW IT JUST TO MAKE MY LIFE EASIER. 4 PARENTING STYLES 1) PERMISSIVE: CHILD-DRIVEN RARELY GIVES OR ENFORCES OVERINDULGED CHILD TO AVOID CONFLICT 2) AUTHORITATIVE SOLVES PROBLEMS TOGETHER WITH CHILD SETS CLEAR RULES AND EXPECTATIONS OPENS COMMUNICATION AND SHOWS CONSEQUENCES 3) NEGLECTFUL UNINVOLVED OR ABSENT PROVIDES LITTLE NURTURANCE OR GUIDANCE INDIFFERENT TO A CHILD'S SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL AND BEHAVIOR NEEDS 4) AUTHORITARIAN PARENT-DRIVEN SETS STRICT RULES AND PUNISHMENT ONE-WAY COMMUNICATION,WITH STYLE CONSIDERATION OR CHILD'S SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL AND BEHAVIORAL NEEDS

WHILE DOING RESEARCH ON THIS IW REALIZE I MAY BE THE PERMISSIVE ONE AND WHEN I HAVE TO BE THE AUTHORITATIVE AND MY HUSBAND IS THE AUTHORITATIVE ONE. mANY PEOPLE HAS SO MANY WAYS THEY TEACH THEIR CHILDREN OR GIVE THEM CONSEQUENCES IF THEY GIVE ANY AT ALL. PERMISSIVE STYLE IS MOST LIKELY TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH THEIR KIDS WHICH I KIND OF DO BUT I ALSO PLAY THE MOM ROLES WHEN NEED BE. MANY PEOPLE DON’T AGREE WITH HOW I PARENT MY CHILD AND ITS OK FOR THE FACT THAT THEY DO NOT LIVE UNDER MY ROOF AND DO NOT KNOW MY EVERYDAY LIFE STYLES. THAT'S WHY I DON’T JUDGE UNLESS IT IS BECOMING VERY THERE IS A ABUSE OF SOME TYPE OF WAY. BECAUSE THE WAY ONE PARENT MAY DO WELL FOR THEIR CHILDREN AND IT MIGHT NOT WORK FOR OTHERS ONE’S CHILD. EVERY PARENT HAS STRESS EVEN IF YOU FEEL YOU DO WHAT IS NECESSARY FOR THE KIDS TO BEHAVE OR DO WHAT THEY MUST. THERE SHOULD BE NO JUDGMENT AT AL BUT THERE IS ALWAYS JUDGMENT BECAUSE WE PARENT DIFFERENTLY AND I DON’T THINK MANY PEOPLE KNOW THIS. LIKE FOR EXAMPLE I DON’T YELL AT MY KIDS REALLY BECAUSE I FEEL AS THOUGH I CAN GET MY POINT ACROSS WITHOUT YELLING. OTHER MAY YELL A LOT TO GET THEIR POINT ACROSS. SOMETIMES IT'S EVEN HARD FOR THE COUPLES IF THEY HAVE DIFFERENT PARENTING STYLES.BECAUSE THEY BOTH CANNOT GET ON THE SAME PAGE WHEN IT COME TO DISCIPLINE THEIR TEACHINGS. I WILL SAY THIS AGAIN NONE PARENTS THE SAME WAY THEY ALL ADDRESS THEIR CHILD OR DISCIPLINE THEM IN WAYS THAT WORK FOR THEM. THERE IS A SITE I READ CALLED WWW.JESSUP.ORG WHO STATING RESEARCHERS FROM STAMFORD NAMED ELEANOR MACCOBY AND JOHN MARTIN WROTE AN ENTIRE BOOK ON AUTHORITATIVE PARENTING THAT STATE THAT ALL FOR CATEGORIES REMAIN IN PLACE TODAY AND SOMETIMES JOIN TOGETHER. WHAT I WANNA KNOW IS WHAT KIND OF PARENTING ARE MY COFFEE LOVERS, AND IF YOU DIDN’T KNOW AFTER READING NOW YOU KNOW,LET ME KNOW. NO JUDGMENT AND UNTIL OUR NEXT CONVERSATION TALK TO YOU LATTE. #PARENTING #WHATKINDOFPARENTAREYOU #COFFELOVERS #READERS #BLOGGERS #DONTJUDGE #LIFE