Try and stay humble

>Hello coffee lovers, While I was sipping on this new organic coffee called Chameleon Organic from Guatemala, I realized a lot of things lately and I wanted to talk about it with you guys. I am all for anyone succeeding in life and going as far as the stars take them but when you are in the stars you forget the little people who supported you and got you to where you are today. I have known people for a long time now and some of them act like we have never met. If I was just a small fish in a big pond because they changed their lifestyle. I for one have changed my lifestyle for the better and might be a bit busy but i can tell you i remember all of my friends. I try to reach out to them from time to time and ask them how they are doing. Even if I can not meet them whenever I want, it is good to keep up with those who keep the same lifestyle. Maybe some friends were there when you were in a dark time and you made these friends but at least let them know that you are better now and if i am not talking to you or anything like this it's because i am not who i used to be. I hope that makes sense. I think that shutting people out of their lives if it's negative to your life at the moment is fine. If they are not harming your life maybe it's a good idea to say hi once in a while.
Too many people are leaving this world way too early and well you will regret saying to yourself “ I should have called them or texted them.” at the time it might be too late when you realize that. Here are some ways to stay humble: Spend time listening to others.: We know we all want to talk about our successes but it keeps you humble if you listen to other people's successes or failures and maybe give some good advice that will help them. It doesn’t take much effort to show you are listening. Ask for help when you need it. I know I have trouble asking for help. I am working on it. If you do have support it's ok to say “ I need help.” you never know how helpful it can be. I asked recently for helo and it was hard but it helped so much and gave me less stress then i have to have. Review your actions against the language of pride: Some people's pride of being successful really gets to them and they forget how to act around others. They have to realize that at some point this person was you but in different citations but you had to see someone successful to say i want this too. Don’t let your pride get the better of you and instead of turning your back on them help them succeed in any way even if it's just cheering them on.it can go a long way to someone else. Make people feel comfortable and valued around you: Some people do feel certain ways when they are around you and they don’t feel comfortable. Take time to make them feel fine. Let them know you are down to earth and you were like them and you get it. Also because you are successful does not mean others should not feel valued,let them know that you value their friendships and their support even if it's just being around you and cheering you on. It should be enough. I know we are still learning how to act when you become successful and you get worried how others may view you but there will always be people who don’t agree with who we are with or what we do. But don't let that change who you were.. Stay humble, you have your real friends behind you and it's better that way. Trust me. Until the next conversation, talk to you latte.. #stayhumble #bloggers #coffeelovers #readers #friends #support #ChameleonOrganiccoffee #lattee

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