Family, Can you remove them from your life?

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Hello coffee Lovers, Today is an espresso Martini kind of day. It has coffee, don't look at me that way.This conversation is about something and talking about family you may need more than just a regular coffee. Hence (espresso Martini). Let's talk about feelings that make us uncomfortable but also need to be heard or in other words read.
There are families who are whole and yet there are arguments they still stay as a family. What happens to those who really don’t have a chance to argue a moment to ask why don’t we talk? Those are the hard parts of family. Those kinds of feelings that keep a family member not whole. As though you will always wonder why. I love family and I am all for family but in reality family is a hard relationship to keep. If you think about it,there is a lack of flexibility when one family member asks for a change in the relationship dynamics,including the lack of respect for new boundaries, holding on to perceived slights from the past, disagreements about money and so much more.
There are such things like Toxic behaviors, abuse, neglect, or conflict that we just do not know and may not ever know. I have a question: what to those family members who did nothing wrong but people pretend you don't exist? What if they are not sure what they did and keep trying to bind or bond with them no matter how many times they don’t respond. Do they just never feel the whole or do they find out in their death beds before they have a chance to fix whatever is wrong. Closure might vary from person to person. However, closure ultimately is an understanding and acceptance that a relationship has ended and often includes a rationale for why it ended. No closure,their souls, their minds may still linger because there is still that luring question. “What did I do for you to stop talking to me,or loving me?” I may not know what situation you are in but know that whoever you have lingering over you try and get some closure despite whether you want them in your life or not. Can you remove them from your life even if they are not in your life? I would love to know what you think about this conversation and what you take on closure and family. As always thank you and i'll talk to you lattee. #family #coffeelovers #espressomartinis #love #disagreements #life #bloggers #readers #thankyou

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